It Cant turn a hoe into a housewife. But they dont.because they KNOW sluts dont make good wives so men wont pick them.well.the smart men wont. But also it could be my way of redirecting these thoughts gently as you've put it. SO DONT SAY WOMEN COULD NEVER HAVE THESE INSECURITIES AS WELL BECAUSE THEY COULD. Im gone from a serious thing..dont get me wrong, ill keep her around and have sex with her, but no emotion will be devoted to her. Blanksie_11 you make excellent points and I do not disagree with you. University of Virginia says it does matter if you want a happy marriage. And guess what? I wonder how many marriages would last if they really even knew. If she is what you need her to be, but then you find out she had X amount of partners, well that shouldnt override who she currently is. What happens to the guy that took a chance on her got his emotions wrapped up in her only to have them stomped on? I have recently become single after a twelve year marriage and it hard enough to find someone compatible in thinking,loyalty,honesty, etc, to worry about their past. Now if she has actually slept with 80% of her male friends and she still associates with them, then I can see where that may be to tough of a pill to swallow. *if you admit to regrets* which is the biggest of your life. Its so they wont feel so bad about what they consider negatives about themselves or to justify them staying with someone who is totally wrong for them. Thank you Jessica : ) and you raise an awesome point. Nowadays, everyone is playing games, and everyone will lose. Its like seeing a movie, all is in the past. As Oprah said (excuse me if I misquote) If you know better, do better. We should strive to be righteous. Its not a mutually exclusive proposition Paola. Really think about this! Your source was concerned with the myth of high rate of divorce in general, and was not studying the relatively high incidences of higher divorce amongst women with more sexual partners. A woman can own her body without giving it to every Tom, Dick, and Harry who comes along. Get urself checked and keep ur pants on before u question her!!! I even recall my mother saying on several occasions how she would have probably married another man. These men typically have low self-esteem, cannot get better, are older and desperate, or simply have no other options. However, you chose to explain a womans promiscuity with abuse, mental issues, and low self-esteem. Religions throughout the world encourage multiplying.and theyre not talking about the female having many children. Love isnt about the pussy or how big the dick is. It encourages an atmosphere of male entitlement. I could care less but its true. Now i Can see why many of us Good Guys Cant meet a Good woman anymore today. It's also possible she has a crazy high libido, which if you build a commited relationship, can really come in handy when you start getting older and other men are in the "dead bedroom" phase, because they wanted to marry a virgin, who happened to have a very low libido, which made it easy for them to stay a virgin. Fifth So, I conclude that it IS relevant about women We're sinning again by lying! Don't forget to follow us on social networks! If a woman is still behaving in a way you dont agree with then by all means keep it moving. By your logic, if we make no judgments on our potential mates, and the past doesnt matter, it should not matter if our potential mate was a child rapist for 20 years, as long as s/he isnt currently raping children. Problem is you cant take that back, youre just hoping they pop out the same number lol. Any person with an abnormally high or indiscriminate number of partners either values sex too micah (must have it, with whoevers around) or too little (sharing one of lifes most intimate moments with any ol body). I had been with 100 myself. And, it will happen. 8. this is not true. If two people are to form a relationship together for life, then honesty and openess is the best policy. Thank you for your input. Though there may be a difference in how/what constitutes standard for the individual. It does not matter if a women thinks average is great, or claims that, it only matters that in our male mind we dont like feeling insecure with the women that should make us feel secure every time we engage in the most intimate of acts with her for the rest of our life. Everyone has the right to judge and they WILL until the end of time as we know it and there is not damn thing wrong with it!!! Would you rather a girl lie to you or tell you the truth? Hey Mike. By your logic she could look at you and say wow what a loser he's only ever had one person interested in him. Error message when applying for student finance, Official Oxford 2023 Postgraduate Applicants Thread, Official LSE Undergraduate Applicants thread 2023, Official Dental Hygiene and Therapy (Oral Health Science) 2023 Entry Thread, Official UNIVERSITY of BATH 2023 entry thread. (Lets assume TONS is much larger than LOTS). Not too many women want a man that other women dont want. The simple truth is, it doesnt matter why you act like a slut. Its more like rape in nature than sex but the female does not sleep aroundstudy this if you must knowand God says so too! Common sense. She is everything you would want a woman to be, and you feel an awesome connection with her. to each their own. honestly your vagina doesnt really strech out till you have a baby. I am sorry to hear that you experienced such things, but keep moving in the right direction as you are. Its societal ideals that were first introduced many, many years ago by selfish, wealthy men in power. 0. Man I wrote a whole paragraph on this stephan you a bitch wheres my comment ? That is all we need to continue our happy lives. Sheila, when you have a chance, give a listen to Christopher Hitchens, or Sam Harris on YouTube. I say how many men she has slept with should not matter. I do not like the double standard but I cannot deny that it exists. Thank you for your writing this article. Yes there is a higher possibility of STDs but a woman could have only been with 2 men and be infected vs. the woman who had over 30 and is still disease free. And because women economically couldnt take care of themselves and would have been shunned by their communities, women were forced to stay in their marriage. I recommend a highly-qualified psychiatrist. Well I ask you one thing WHO GIVES UP THE HOLE. A Woman or Man that sleeps with 100 people is emotionally DEAD! You men make so many assumptions about us women but just know that a woman with a few notches under her belt is just as capable of loving you emotionally, spiritually, mentally, and physically like any other woman. The number is certainly not all that matters. Society is emotionally drained because of this ignorant behavior. idc if im broke or rich or how your feel in a bed room or how i look its my intellect that should make u be willing to be with me or my compassion or my intentive attitude towards you when a women has a mutiple relations with different men she has a lot of comparision to the man she is involved with and then women wonder why the are single mothers? A guy friend of mine had to dump his first girlfriend in college because she kept pushing to get married and to settle down. They are basically acting like many men have for ages. And women can go a long way in updating the image of women in society. So when women say that having sex with lots of men is somehow acting like men, they are wrong. You cant turn a ho in to a housewife. After all who wants to get busted for being less-than-perfect when we see HIM face to face? How you choose to look at her is an issue within yourself. I think its best to know what youre dealing with but at the same it doesnt matter because who they are today should speak volumes. The Virgin guy is one by choice. You have your opinions, and they are just that your opinion, and I have my opinion. What an a**! If she isnt what you need her to be currently, then of course keep it moving. Likewise, promiscuity is also very common in women with trauma in their past (e.g., rape, molestation, physical and emotional abuse, etc.). So many men end up with a woman they swear meets their standards in regards to their sexual past, but really she has done much more then he will ever know. Planned Parenthood business is booming. Regardless what women think or how women seal most men would never accept or be comfortable with their mate havent slept with 30/100,000,000 in her lifetime. But be careful with your in-person reaction to your significant other's confession. Instead, he should feel the love and respect she has for him. Hi Stephan. you certainly would be a fool to expect that it wouldnt have Doesnt mean a man will like it, but is it really worth letting go of a good thing because of a number. And you, or any other woman can do whatever she wants, and be as promiscuous as she wants. Hope you can shed your toxic/red pill/PUA thoughts and beliefs. This method only works It assumes that all women have slept with more partners than I would find comfortable (far from correct), and that the only way I could end up happy and not lonely is to settle down and marry someone. So youre in love and want the relationship to work. My life was so hard because of my sexual freedom so I want her life to be much easier than mine and easier would be for me to teach her to not express her sexuality and to just hold out as long as possible. In this life, moral responsibility will offer you far, far more than even being able to regain what you may have lost, even following reconciliation. Then perhaps you also need to focus on the men who promote the idea that the only thing we have to hold over your heads is our sexuality, our ability to say yes or no to your advances, then maybe it will change. Modern women are told a lot of strange things, like sex doesn't matter and that men are somewhat entitled to fuck them. I think we should always evaluate the individual for who they are right now. was a bad (abusive) relationship. Guess what? Do you think she Will she affected by my departure? This is not the ideal number, but the threshold number as to how Imagine for a moment that the United States was an egalitarian society. I completely agree with you that a womans sexual health (i.e. The past does matter, because granted imagine sleeping with the man or woman, exchanging fluids. Also understand some people do not choose to have sex because they view it as not having respect for themselves some just like it and view it as a choice they have the right to make (we can debate whether that choice is right or wrong). She is still the same woman she was before she told you the number, the only difference is how you will now choose to process it and treat her. I love this article! the women do to. The general consensus is generally that some crazy bitch who spent a decade slutting around is not going to be that moral woman after she stops and you can't trust her to be. Nice try though. document.getElementById( "ak_js_1" ).setAttribute( "value", ( new Date() ).getTime() ); Enter your email below to join the VIP list. These weren't the low quality dudes either. Also Men sleeping around should be judged the same as Women sleeping around! She informed methat she had sex with over 30 men. Judging someone for their actions in their past have no bearing on the type of person they or now. The girl you date is not concerned about cooking for you. Even the girl who says she has casual sex without emotions points out the sex she had was with people she was already emotionally connected to, her friends. Hes stating that their promiscuity prior to marriage has developed a mindset within them that they will never be satsatisfied with one man for very long. And, remember, Neighbor, even one sex act outside of or before marriage is considered promiscuous and, definitely sinful for males or females in His eyes. Its not your fault. believe to be productive and positive ways to deal with these issues. Im a guy who never really had any girlfriends, I turned down or was just completely blind to all advances to me and missed all opportunities, I never really cared (or told myself I didnt, but probably I did), I would be a virgin if it wasnt for the few random prostitutes I slept with yeh, something Im not happy about but I only did it cause I was lonely and never believed in myself, I had my heart broken a few times (yeh wahh wahh, I was young and a sensitive human being), I had chronic anxiety and the thought of even going on a date made me want to vomit so I never met anyone or just avoided it I was 28 before I finally met someone who actually loves me, I was blown away. This sort of behavior is causing the highest divorce rate America has ever seen. Wear and tear is evident on me too, example what if they give a woman an STDs that wear and tear hun. Oh sure, I agree. 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